Monday, November 30, 2009
Meet Claudette and this week's special
At 6:36 I began to panic. I've been trying so hard to post by 7:00 a.m. for my six readers who are up at that time anxiously waiting for what I have to say. I don't know who you are, but I know there are about six of you joining me for my morning coffee. It would be nice if y'all said "howdy" some time!
Tonight I thought I'd introduce those of you who haven't met her to Claudette. She's feeling very Ansel Adams-y here in her black-and-whiteness.
But introducing Claudette is not the real reason I decided to write again tonight, though. It's to announce this week's special. You thought I gave up, didn't you!?!
The cookies from our first week have been delivered to Hulk and Elizabeth. I've made contact with Anonymous and we'll be having a pie-baking lesson soon. This week I thought I'd do something completely different. Ready? I have picked out something very special - and calorie-free - that I will award to someone who comments here or on Tuna on Wheatley by Saturday, Dec. 5. All comments will be entered in my drawing, so comment early and often to increase your chances! Tell me a story. Share something shiny. Give me some constructive criticism. Just talk to me.
All righty. Sweet dreams, friends. I'll see some of you bright and early.
Infinite Possibility
Aren't babies great? Beyond being little snuggly bundles of cuteness, I love how the potential to change the world is wrapped up in each little package.
This is my dad being shown off to the world by my grandma about 79 years ago. It would have been around this time of year since he was born on Nov. 19. Perhaps this was my grandparents' Christmas card photo. I wonder what they did when they went back in the house. After the photo shoot ... what did they do next?
Well, here we are at that beginning of another Christmas season. I just heard on NPR that retail sales from this weekend are up over last year. (I don't read the paper but I do listen to NPR.) Today is Cyber Monday - the biggest online shopping day of the year. I'm seeing Christmas lights popping up all over town, and know many people spent time this past weekend decorating their homes for the holidays. Lizz took down the petrified pomegranates, so my house is decoration-free at the moment. Perhaps I'll work on it next weekend.
But beginnings. I think that's what I'm trying to reflect upon. Whether it's getting ready to face a new work week, start a new project, prepare for a busy holiday season, welcome a baby ... right at this moment, the paper is blank. What will we find written on it tomorrow?
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Perfect Design
When I pulled out this photo this morning, I saw in it the enormity of God and the perfection of His design. The placement of elements is not symmetrical, but the overall effect is perfect. Every piece of this image contains both history and untold stories. I see hope and infinite possibility. Do you see it?
Today marks the beginning of Advent - when we celebrate the coming of the Prince of Peace into our world. An event that fit perfectly in God's design more than 2,000 years ago and still does today.
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Pie for Breakfast
This is how I'd like to feel today. I just finished my post-Thanksgiving pie breakfast and wish very much that I could be in that chair.
I don't have anything illuminating to share today. There's a pretty substantial "should do" list I'll need to prioritize. I'm not ready to tackle that yet, but know I can't put it off too long longer.
Oh! But yesterday was lovely. We slept in. Deliciously late. Then, y'know, had a little bit of pie for breakfast. But not too much since we were going to go out to lunch with my sister and nieces. Did a bit of laundry, homework (Lizz) and paperwork (me) in the afternoon, had leftovers for dinner (yum!) and then went to the youth program I've been attending a couple of Fridays a month. One of the leaders was going to conduct a Bible study in Spanish and I knew Lizz would like that. After the study, there was pizza, volleyball and a few rounds of Cranium until about 11:00. And then? When we got home it was time for our matching monkey pants, a movie and popcorn.
Ever since I was a kid, we always enjoyed pie for breakfast in the days after Thanksgiving. Like the slivers of pumpkin-nut, apple and pecan combining in my mouth, I just love that easy, unhurried feeling of each moment gently unfolding into the next. Why can't every day be like that?
Friday, November 27, 2009
Tryptophan Overload
Not making lists.
Not drinking coffee - not yet.
I love long post-holiday weekends. It's still dark outside. I'm way too cozy in my monkey pants and fuzzy socks. Claudette says it's OK for me to go back to bed.
Oh, almost forgot ... Anonymous is our pie winner! We'll work out logistics later when I get up, all righty?
Thursday, November 26, 2009
An Abundance of Blessings
This photo shows just a portion of the feast our Japanese exchange student and her sister prepared for our family a few years ago. Being a host family was such a lovely opportunity to extend our blessings to a young woman who ventured across the world from Japan to experience America. In so many ways, she knew more about our country and customs than we did! Midori experienced the full spectrum while she was here - school, sports, welcoming new babies into the world and saying good-bye to loved ones. Holidays. Birthdays. Weekends. Life. She truly became a part of our family. Seeing our lives and the little piece of our world through the eyes of someone from another country helped me to appreciate the abundance of blessings we're surrounded with here. For example, Midori was continually astounded at the wide-open spaces. I could go on, but I'll let others take a turn now ...
I am thankful that my daughter survived her parents' divorce without too much crap to deal with. She is still a very happy child, doing great in school, with lots of friends. I am thankful for her happiness. Anything else is icing on the cookies...
- Hulk 2.0
Oh my. What am I NOT thankful for. I am blessed beyond measure. Healthy children. Loving husband. A few dear friends (including one of whom might teach me how to make a decent pie crust?). Home. Food. Clothing. Not just enough, but plenty.
- Anonymous
I am really thankful that I get to spend the day at home relaxing. However, there will be many men and women in foreign countries, fighting so that we may continue to have freedom to stay at home and relax, that won't have this luxury. I am thankful to all of the service men and women---past and present---who so proudly represent the USA.
- CP
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Over the river and ...
We used to always sing that on the way to our grandparents' house in Bancroft, which you can partly see in this family photo. Even though I'm not in the circa 1964 picture, I love this photo. It reminds me of Sunday dinners - and other Thanksgiving-like food fests ...
Watching Grams make pie crust and biscuits in her kitchen with the slanted floor and the built-in flour bins ...
Naps on the davenport ...
Ernie Harwell's voice, heard throughout the house, commentating on the Detroit Tigers ...
Watching Gramps or Dad or Uncle Lee carve the turkey ...
Eating apple pie with slices of cheddar cheese ...
Playing with all the little doo-dads and knick-knacks in the curio cabinets ...
Frolicking in the yard or running through the small town with my Maryland cousins ...
Listening to stories from the recent and distant past, not realizing new stories were being written in those moments ...
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Gratitudinous Tuesday
This photo must have been taken about five or six years ago. I can tell because it's in our old house (we moved into our new old house four years ago) with our very old oatmeal sofa. My dad is there, holding the pillow Lizz made him for Christmas. (That's not Sparty, that's Butch, right, Hulk?) I know it's Christmas morning in this photo, probably just before my sister's family trooped over for sticky buns and presents. We lived in my sister's back yard (hey, Scott! one word or two?) for about 15 years. Well, not literally in the back yard. In a tiny house behind her house. There's so much to be thankful for in this whole memory - I'll just mention a few things right now. I am thankful for my sister and brother-in-law, who provided a home for us for so many years. I'm thankful that we had a warm, safe place to live, but most of all, for the nearness and love of family.
That old house was about 800 square feet. That's about the area of our entire second floor now. Maybe less. It was enough. I am thankful to have always been blessed with enough.
Right now, the second floor is serving as the Something Shiny B&B. Claudette and I got a wonderful surprise last night! My dear friend Ardeth Frangipani was in the area and spent the night. I hope she's sleeping comfortably up there. We had a nice evening drinking tea and chatting. We've been friends for just about forever. And even if we go weeks or a month or more without communicating ... we're able to just jump in and start in the middle of the conversation. I am thankful for Ardeth, and I could take decades of posts sharing all of the ways her steadfast friendship has sustained me over the years. I am thankful that I have ample space here at the B&B to be her "port in a storm."
Hulk has told me he doesn't "need" any pie, although he's enjoying his cookies. Seems he's quite the pie chef himself. I'm still waiting for his sour cream apple pie recipe. Ahem. In any event, I'd love to share some more thankful thoughts here on Thursday. So I'll extend the deadline for this week's special to Wednesday (tomorrow) night. When I wake up Thursday morning, I'll run all the thankful thoughts here ... and I'll randomly select a pie recipient. We can work out logistics on Friday.
Which reminds me: I'm thankful for short work weeks! I'm thankful for my work family. I'm thankful for ...
Monday, November 23, 2009
The Write Word
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Paying Attention
Every day presents new challenges. There are those yucky grown-up to-do lists. (Or in my case, should-have-done lists.) And I miss the mark so many times it's just not even funny. But every day presents another chance to do it right. That's one of the ways grace works.
But if I have a choice between dusting the living room or putting away the clean laundry (and finding matching socks in the process) or raking the leaves ... and getting all chalk-covered creating a giant hockey-rink-basketball-court-waterfall with a great nephew ... guess which one I'm going to choose?
My Sunday morning prayer for my dear readers: That you remain open to slight course changes in your plans to make room for the most important things. And that you remember to pay attention.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
High Time for Pie
Dad liked chocolate pie - with real pudding from scratch (not a box). That's DJ's favorite, too. My sister loves key lime. Julie's fav was always apple. Mary asks for pistachio ice cream pie on her birthday. I'm not sure if John has a favorite - maybe sour cherry? Rhubarb? Pecan? Depends on the season? David loves pumpkin with all the "gooey nutty goodness on top." Lisa likes the raspberry-chocolate concoction we got from Murrrrriel. Actually, everyone likes that one. Ruh roh, Rizzu, which one is your favorite?
Yesterday I promised I was not going to award anyone with my petrified pomegranates, knowing I'd have to come up with something equally appealing to offer. Plus, they're serving nicely as my holiday decorations on the bannister upstairs there.
To bake or not to bake? That is the question for what is typically one of my biggest baking weeks of the year. So I asked myself: Self? What's one more pie?
Now I have thought of the logistics of this week's offer ... what if the winning entry is long distance? And I have to ship a pie? Well, I'll burn that bridge (what an awful expression) when and if I come to it. That'd be a good problem to have, I think. I will send a frozen pie to Virginia or elsewhere if I have to. I know it can be done. We have the technology.
So here is how to get a pie - your choice (within ship-ability limits of course) - of your very own that you could potentially have in time to share with others on Turkey Day:
Please tell me - by commenting below or by e-mail - something for which you are particularly thankful. That's it! So easy! Anyone can win a pie! Please send your thankful thoughts to me by end of day Monday, Nov. 23. I'll randomly select, notify, consult with and bake a pie for the winner on Tuesday (or Wednesday) and then share all of the blessings here next Thursday.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Petrified Pomegranates for Your Ponderings?
So now I'm baking for Elizabeth (is it OK if I give you your cookies when you come home?) and Hulk, who has been such a good sport with commenting and with responding to my first weekly special in such a timely manner. I'm accepting entries until end of day tomorrow for one more cookie recipient. End of day means midnight EST. Whatever I find when I wake up Sunday morning when I have to get ready to bake. But this is your last reminder because tomorrow there will be a new special!
You know, November is National Pomegranate Month. I bought these lovely specimens back in October. And now they're petrified. Oh, don't worry. That won't be the special tomorrow. But if you have a hankering for petrified pomegranates, just let me know.
Happy Friday! Two weeks of posting daily! Are you more informed, inspired, enlightened or is your life otherwise positively impacted?
P.S. If you've been reading comments below the posts or in the right margin, nobody is swearing. I swear. At least not here. Or there.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Vital Information
It's a good thing we don't count on magazines as a vital source of up-to-the-second news. But this little example is a good illustration of why I am personally responsible for the downfall of the newspaper industry.
I admit it. It's all my fault. And I'm really really sorry. Now, please take a moment to appreciate how shiny our dearly departed cat, Pierre, is. Was.
When I used to get the Sunday paper, you know what I'd do? Dump all the ads into the recycling bin. Or put them in the vicinity of my current painting project. Move them out of the way so I could read THE NEWS.
I also do not watch TV. At home, that is. If I am in a place with a TV ... I will watch it. And very soon, drool will begin oozing out of the corner of my mouth because of all the shiny things to be found. And the clicking. And I ignore everyone around me ... "Shhh! Watch this! Just a second! Shhh!" Until they thwack me on the head and drag me back.
Somehow, though, the television folks are doing just fine without me. Why is that? But back to the newspaper ... I really think we will see a return - in a new form, to be sure - of the local newspaper. There's that wide-eyed optimism Ann always accuses me of being afflicted with. What do you think? How do get your vital information ... other than from my pithy posts, of course? (I just love the word "pithy" and was looking for a place to insert it today!)
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
A peek at my office
As you can tell, I like to surround myself with all sorts of important things at work. Like the Bill Ding guys, the words to the Lumberjack Song, photos of special people and baby Claudette in basket (there's a glare so it's tough to tell), formulas to calculate RSI and roof slopes just in case ... all my stuff.
I think the piling and clutteredness is a family trait. Like having a little turntable with spoons and spices and knicknacks in the middle of the breakfast table. After my last visit to my family in Virginia I realized I needed to get back here and put that thing in the middle of the table. I'd reached a certain age, and it was time.
Remember how sleepy I was yesterday morning? It just got worse through the day. I had that odd feeling I used to get when I pulled all-nighters in college. Where my skin felt funny ... like it didn't fit right.
I stayed up as late as I could, which was 9:30. I kept looking at the clock thinking it must be at least 11:00 ... and it was 8:15. Ugh. I knew if I went to bed too early I'd wake up in the middle of the night again. But I slept until 6:00 and am feeling better in my skin today. Thanks for asking.
Don't forget ... cookie for your thoughts ... so far I'm making cookies for Elizabeth and Hulk!
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Tuesday Snoozeday
Monday, November 16, 2009
Sock it to me
And to top it off, there seems to be a sock-eating monster around here and the situation is getting pretty serious. How can I build my outfit around a favorite pair of socks if I can't find two that match???!
I just sneezed (nope, didn't dust this weekend either) and Claudette cackled "enh enh enh enh." Does anyone else have a cat who says, "Bless you" this way?
I've added a new feature below each post. You can now click on a little bubble that best describes your reaction to what you just read - when you don't feel like commenting, that is. And you can even send me an e-mail. See how desperate I am for feedback? Three ways to sock it to me!
Don't forget ... cookie for your thoughts! Did everyone read Elizabeth's wonderful acrostic? Go see! Go see! Of course I'll send her cookies just because. I'll bake TWO batches - one for her and one for another lucky winner.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Chalk it up to good planning
He said, "Really? Coloring in the driveway is exactly what you wanted to do?"
And I said, "Yup."
Sunday Thoughts
Contented Claudette making muffins; tickling my arm with her whiskers
Reflecting on yesterday, which was filled to overflowing
Church bazaar
Breaking bread with faithful friends
Songs of faith and hope
Later, a birthday party
Wagon rides, scavenger hunt, jumping in leaves
Stories and games
Magical quiet moments amidst the chaos
Sticky fingers
Monkey rides
Today?
Rest
Soul tending
Sabbath
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Cookie for Your Thoughts
Two ways to comment:
1. Directly below the post, click where it says "xx comments" in the blue type right after the time of the post. Enter your comment in the box. Click the Post Comment button. Check to be sure your comment is accepted. (It will say in red if it is not.) Try again. I don't know why it doesn't always do this the first time, but a box with some squiggly letters will pop up that second time - it's protection against spam. Type those letters in the box and click the Post Comment button again. The IT here is working on that glitch but I appreciate your persistence!
2. You may also send me an e-mail.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Shamelessly Seeking Memories
Anyway, as I was working on dredging up material for Tuna on Wheatley, I was reminded of how much I've forgotten about my life. So I'm shamelessly seeking memories - about me, about you, about others - funny, touching, bizarre - just not tooooo humiliating, OK? Please be nice. And don't give full names.
Oh! Happy Friday! I made it a full week of posting daily! Woo-hoo! Thank you to everyone who's been reading, and especially to those of you brave enough to CLICK on the ads!
Thursday, November 12, 2009
WITH Abandon
And also: THANK YOU to whoever clicked today. I'm not positive but I think every click (on an AdSense ad) is worth at least a buck. I say that because I'm seeing >300 impressions and 8 clicks just since last Friday.
Woo-hoo!
Click-o-Rama
I spend a good deal of time every day pointing and clicking. Clickety click click click. Even beyond my job, my interests have me searching the Internet and clicking away here and there and everywhere, going down rabbit trails ... clickety click click click ... oh! Look what I found!
Is clicking behavior - that is, a willingness to click without abandon - generational or gender-based? Are some people afraid that if they click on a link or an ad or anything else on a page that someone will steal their cookies? Or that they'll get a virus? (My sister raised the virus concern. I really don't know what to say.)
I'll admit the wide-open Web can be scary. Kind of a Pandora's Box of knowledge and possibility. (Did you know it was really a jar and not a box? Go ahead and click that wiki link. You'll also see that hope was a big part of the Pandora myth.)
I like most things "e." Not just for the shiny-ness. Largely for the connectional possibilities. Just like any technology, the Internet can be used for good and for bad. But I've seen so many good applications, and I support them as much as I can.
Take for example The Hunger Site. Now you can click on the link in the text back there or you can just key www.thehungersite.com in your address bar. Your choice. Lizz showed me this one a year or so ago. I now have it as my home page (on both work and home computers) when I open my browser. So the first thing I do is click on the big orange button and thanks to my click, sponsors pay for cups of food. And now and then when I'm taking the time for rabbit trails, I spend some time clicking around and looking at all the nifty Fair Trade stuff I can buy and the other worthy efforts I can support when budget allows. I'm just looking ... clicking costs me nothing but it benefits the causes. And if I'm sharing my cookies at the same time? I don't really mind. I like cookies.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Look! I'm practically invisible!
And here I am making soup for the masses. I tend to do that. Can you see how it's really really close to the top of the pot? I just kept chopping and slicing and dicing and adding broth and then I realized I needed to find 47 people to eat all the soup I just made.
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Monday, November 9, 2009
Peanut Gallery
Other Benefits of Dogs
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Not a Turkey
Reading Material
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Wide-Open Saturday
I love Saturday mornings. Especially when I don't have a fully packed schedule ahead. My sister wants me to help with a Polish dinner/dance thing at 5:00 at her church. (I'm thinking about it, OK?) And I have plans to share a glass or two of wine with a dear friend later in the evening after her kiddies are in bed. And I have to figure out what to take for fellowship time at church tomorrow because it's my turn ...
But other than that? I have a day full of potential ahead. Woo-hoo!
Be right back. First things first. Gotta go grind the coffee beans and get the coffee brewing. And feed Claudette. She's asking nicely.
There. Claudette's been fed and watered. Oh! She fell off the bathroom sink again. That's at least the third time in the last few days. I hope she's not developing some sort of issue that will require expensive medical attention.
Oh ... speaking of pet care ... um, Lizz? The fish died this week. I'm so sorry. And I hope you will forgive me for telling you here. I didn't want to bother you with sad news of a piscine nature when you were so busy at school. But remember when I told you it was acting kind of sluggish before I cleaned the tank a couple of weeks ago? It/he/she got more sluggish after the cleaning and then when I got home from work on Tuesday, it/he/she was ... gone. Odd that it didn't float to the top. I thought they always floated? Claudette and I said a few words (I could tell she was distressed) and then, well, fishy went the way of all deceased fishies ...
So back to our wide-open day. The danger for someone like me is that when I don't have an agenda planning out every moment, the list continues and the lavender still calls ...
The problem with The List is that it keeps growing and transmogrifying. And a lot of those pesky things have to be done more than once. Go figure!
I know the other grownups out there have known that all along and are dutiful and disciplined with their to-do lists.
The theme of this year for me has been introspection and discernment. I know I have certain talents (still figuring them out) and other areas where I am not gifted - and in which I do not aspire to greatness (or even mere adequacy). Of course, there are tasks I don't want to do but have to find a better, saner way to do because really, only I can or should do them.
All of my THINKING flies in the face of the whole "Just do it" mentality. Probably drives some people nuts.
So ... the question is ... do I heed the call of the lavender today (so to speak, it's a bit beyond its season) or tackle the list or do a bit of both? It's shiny outside - sunny and blue and bright - so I think I'll do a bit of both. I'd still like it if someone else could be the grownup for me and do all this other stuff:
- Mail the correspondence (I seem unable to keep track of envelopes and stamps; I have a collection of never-mailed letters and thank you cards)
- Upload and organize the photos
- Make the phone calls (why can’t everyone just check their e-mail?)
- Balance the checkbook (and pay the bills)
- Put away the dishes ... and the laundry (seriously, why can't you do this once and just be done with it?)
- Clean out the dryer vent (how do you DO that, anyway?)
- Back up the computer
- Make the beds
- Sell dad's house - or figure out how to be a landlord
- Start an exercise plan – and then stick to it
- Caulk the tub and shower
- Change the light bulbs ... oh crap – there goes another one
- Watch the news and read the paper (but please tell me the highlights)
- Weatherstrip the doors
- Repair the tile
- Simplify my life!
Friday, November 6, 2009
Promises
Thousands of Michigan college students, my daughter among them, are asking how they can call it a Promise ... and then take it away. (I tried, really tried, to find unbiased news reports/web content/editorial. Yikes. You try to Google Michigan Promise Scholarship.)
In any event, it’s this loss of critical funding that’s in part responsible for me signing up for AdSense and enabling ads here ... to attempt to generate additional revenue to help my college student. Since she’s brilliant and had some good scholarships, I’ve been way too complacent about helping her fund college. Also feeling guilty that I’m still paying off my own student loans from my second time through the university. Yes, that time I thought I wanted to be a doctor when I grew up. A topic for another day.
When I first set up Something Shiny and Tuna on Wheatley earlier this year, I was brand new to the blogosphere. I was dabbling. Looking for a creative outlet. Exploring social media. Doing “research.” Now, I have dozens of favorite bloggers I regularly follow. And I’ve seen that ads can be placed tastefully and add value to the experience. I’m kind of intrigued by the “magic” of it all also – to see how ad content is based on key words or phrases in my posts.
In my contract I promised not to click on the ads because that messes up the tracking. I’m still playing with the placement and content. I don’t want them to be extra intrusive and obnoxious. Those are just pesky details. Mostly, I know that if I want this to work, I need to make this an interesting, perhaps helpful, destination. Perhaps we should call it the Something Shiny Café ... bring your cup of java and come hang out with me for a little bit every day. We can chat about lots of lovely shiny things. I’m open to suggestions.
I changed majors about as often as I changed jobs in college. I’m so glad I didn’t stick with the major in political science (which lasted about 2.3 seconds). Because I never could get the hang of Econ ... or things like why politicians can fund wars and give giant tax breaks (and bailout money) to big corporations ... but funding basics like food, health care, housing ... and education is just so very very difficult.
I know all of that is very complex. So I’m doing something simple. I promise to be here every day. I hope you’ll join me.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Re-Onion
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
WANTED
- Finish painting the storm windows ... then hang them
- Pay the bills
- Organize the paperwork
- Clean the litter box
- Do the laundry
- Rake the leaves
- Dust and vacuum
- Clean the gutters
- Paint the house
- Throw out the nasty stuff in the fridge
- Hang the light fixtures
- Install the doorknob
- Re-hang the closet door
- Finish the church website
- Strip/refinish the woodwork
- Clean the basement
- Take boxes and boxes and boxes of books ... somewhere
- Be the grownup